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A Taste of Enchantment - December 15, 2003
"Dedicated to helping you find delight and feel good about yourself."
Produced by Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein, Psychologist, Happiness Coach,
and Originator of THE ENCHANTED SELF®
to the mid-month publication of The Enchanted Self's e-letter! This month, I would like to share an old favorite that our readers have asked for with you again. Please enjoy this inspirational article. Also, welcome new subscribers! To get familiar with the Enchanted Self concepts please visit our Positive Psychology Concepts page at www.enchantedself.com/concepts.htm or the e-letter archives at www.enchantedself.com/eletterarchives.htm
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Magic Potions We All Need
This Time of Year
For people with mild versions of feeling down or sad at this time of year, I'd like to suggest a way to lighten ourselves and bring more light back into our lives. My suggestion is the use of magic potions. Did I say "magic potions?" You thought I was a positive psychologist, not a magician or a medieval enchantress of some type! Yes, I said "magic potions" and yes, indeed, I am a positive psychologist. So what do I mean? Let me explain.
When I talk about magic potions--an expression I use to add drama and fire to
our cold winter days--I am really talking about individual mental health
formulas designed for each person. These are available in various sizes, shapes
and compositions. Just like the old fashioned pharmacy where the pharmacist got
out his mortar and pestle and mixed a compound for you when you didn't feel
well, our mental health magic potions are that unique, requiring individual
mixing. In fact, a compound that agrees with me may not agree with you. So it is
very important to take the time to mix exactly what each of us need. This is
necessary for the full affect of joy and
Now let's look at what makes a mental health potion real magic. The best way I can initially teach you about these magic potions is by example. For me, a magic potion this time of year is simply to walk outside of the house, as I did this morning to listen to a crow up in a tree calling its song. This ordinary bird, not usually sought after for its song, has always quickened my heart and unleashed a momentary but real sense of well-being.
For many, many years I've wondered why. The best I
These vague memories are without a clear storyline but do seem to take me back to my grandmother Rose Silverman that I loved so much. The crow's call starts a memory trace that includes Rosen Road where my grandparents lived. I do not remember any crows calling, but I do remember lying in my bed and experiencing the wider world through an open window.
I felt content lying there, enjoying the aromas of flowers and cooking, the street noises, including children's voices laughing and shouting, cars and, of course, nature's voice: the birds chirping, and the trees rustling. All of this made me feel so safe, drowsily content and anticipating what our adventures that day would be.
Perhaps I'd get to ride on the swan boats downtown at Boston Common, feed the
pigeons and grandpa would buy me a balloon. Or maybe we would be going to visit
a relative and I would be offered a wonderful box of chocolates from which to
pick one or two special selections. Then I would get to dance and show off and
receive some well appreciated praise.
Here's another example of a simple, magical potion that compounds beautifully for me. This past Sunday was a lovely day but by 4:00 pm, shadows were already appearing suggesting the inevitable gloom I feel as sunlight disappears and dusk arrives by 4:30 or 4:45 pm. Rather than stay at home, perhaps even doing some necessary paperwork or even a more household--like chore such as tidying my front hall closet, I abandoned my house and took myself down to the boardwalk near where we live.
For an hour I went back and forth on this short boardwalk savoring the smells that still lingered from autumn, as well as the visionary experience of watching the sky slowly get darker. I enjoyed the extra light in the sky near the ocean, hearing the waves as I walked and occasionally sharing a friendly "hello" with another passerby.
Then, of course, I returned home to all the mundane chores--the first one being
preparing dinner. However, I did have my magical potion still running
through my body giving me an infusion that carried me through the rest of that
night. Thus you see how magic can happen when we design mental health formulas
We're going to continue to talk about mental health magical potions again in the next issue. Let's stop for the time being so you can begin to prepare your individual mental health magical potion!
Mental Health Magical Potions: Suggestions to
Consider in Creating Your Individual Compound
Good luck compounding your mental health magical potions and I look forward to chatting with you more about them soon!
Please give us the pleasure of sharing your responses. They may be posted on the web site or in future issues of the newsletter. You can also chat about this topic or create your own in The Enchanted Self e-group at the following URL: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/encself
I had the privilege of being quoted in Woman's World magazine on November 18th. If you have a copy, you can learn more about my thoughts in an Q&A article entitled "The Inner You." To read this short article click here. It is an article focusing on seeing the beauty of a person on the inside, not the outside. Enjoy!
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Have an "enchanting" month. I wish you all many enchanted moments!