The Truth ~ Virtual Book Tour

I am having a great time on my Virtual Book Tour for: THE TRUTH (I’m 10, I’m Smart and I Know Everything).  Here are just a few stops I made along the way in August.

Join me along the Way!  ( September schedule coming soon)

August 2, 2007

The Story Behind the Books

August 3, 2007

Judge a Book By Its Cover

August 6, 2007

The Book Connection

August 8, 2007

Plug Your Book!

August 14, 2007

Pump Up Your Online Book Promotion

August 16, 2007

Inside the Writer’s Mind

August 20, 2007

Storycrafters

August 22, 2007

Be My Guest ~ Blogspot

August 24, 2007

W.O.W. – Women on Writing

August 28, 2007

Muze’s Musings

August 31, 2007

Straight From the Author’s Mouth

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The Enchanted Self, enchantment Happiness, Positive Psychology Recipes For Enchantment, The Truth

Dr. Barbara Becker Holstien Teleclass

Dr. Barbara Becker Holstien discusses her book "I am 10, Iam Smart and I know everything" in this teleclass.

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Dr. Barbara Becker Holstien with Tony Trupiano

Dr. Barbara Becker Holstien discusses her book "I am 10, I am smart and I know Everything" with radio show host Tony Trupiano.

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The Enchanted Self,
enchantment
Happiness,
Positive Psychology
Recipes For Enchantment,
The Truth

Use of Memory to Enhance Pleasure and Meaning -A Positive Psychology Technique that is core to THE ENCHANTED SELF

The field of Positive Psychology research is exploding.  As a positive pscyhologist I am always concerned that people get a sense of what happiness is really all about.  It does take work to be happy.  However, it certainly takes work and strain to be unhappy.  So we might as well work on happiness.  In order to increase happiness of course we need to recognize what we enjoy, what gives us pleasure and also what has meaning in our lives.  We are not just creates of passion, eager to indulge in endless pleasure.  We need MORE.The question that I am concerned about is how to we find that MORE in a way that is consistent with our unique personalities.  MORE for me would certainly not be a golf game, even on a beautiful course in Florida.

The way that we find and examine the MORE is to learn how to use our memory banks in positive rather than negative ways-to search our own unique store of memories and impressions in a way that enhances what is right about ourselves, rather than what is wrong and also enhances our recognition of what the MORE might be for each person.  Stay with me I’ll be back for the next episode in this message… Or go to www.enchantedself.com right now and download my free paper on happiness on the front page..

Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein

The Enchanted Self,
enchantment
Happiness,
Positive Psychology
Recipes For Enchantment,
The Truth

A New Approach to Sharing Positive Psychology via Fiction

As a positive psychologist I am determined to share and teach positive psychological concepts in a self help manner that truly works.  The question is how to do that and not be dry or tedious.  How could I pass on the wisdom I have the privelege of understanding and using in a way that women would enjoy the read and still use the inspiration from my book to integrate more fully all the positive parts of themselves and not shy away from their own powers to create a fabulous life for themselves?  How also to create  a read that would help women and their daughters communicate more openly and honestly so that girl would be able to trust that as they grew up they would come into their own and not have to ’sell out.’
The answer to my question was to let the ‘girl’ come alive.  Let her move away from me and become her own character who knew exactly the book she wanted to write.  And she wrote it!  And the result is a new book, my fourth, THE TRUTH, I’m Ten, I’m Smart and I Know Everything! 
To find out more about the book and read excerpts go to www.enchantedself.com
Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein

The Truth, I'm Ten, I'm Smart and I Know Everything!

THE TRUTH, I’m Ten, I’m Smart and I Know Everything! by Dr.Barbara Becker Holstein
How did I come to write my first fiction?  This is my fourth book and the first one to divert to an entirely new path, yet with the same objective: To help women and girls lead happier lives, lives of meaning and purpose, while staying totally truth to the unique passions and potential of each woman or girl.  I have been teaching the value of understanding one’s uniqueness for 15 years.  But how to give the lesson a new simple twist that would captivate and at the same time leave the woman or girl who read the book on fire to be truer to herself?
Well, like all journeys, this one has a beginning.  The beginning was another non-fiction book for women that I had titled, GatewaYou Don’t Have to Be A Princess to Live an Enchanted Life.  Seven Gateways to Happier Living.  (My trademark is THE ENCHANTED SELF, hence the word Enchanted in the title.  You can find out all about THE ENCHANTED SELF concept on my website and blog, www.enchantedself.com.  For now, let me just say it is a both a way of living that enhances happiness and a way of perceiving yourself that augments your sense of well-being.)
Getting back to THE TRUTH, I’m Ten, I’m Smart and I Know Everything!-this book was to some extent embedded in the princess book.  In that book I used discussions with myself as a Positive Psychologist, and a girl of 10 or so, who was me.  We talked to each other about how we viewed each of the Seven Gateways of Happiness that we all need to walk through again and again to make progress in life.  For example, the first Gateway is centered around self-esteem.  My little girl inside of me felt very sure of herself and was actually, as it turned out, much to my surprise, angry at me-the adult, for not having more courage to do the things I claimed to be passionate about.  I learned so much writing the rough draft of that book about myself and women in general, as I merged my thoughts with my client’s narratives. 
I realized above all else, that we don’t harness the powers that we really have as adults to live impassioned lives that reflect what we really care about.  We are in our own ways timid and afraid and bogged down by life’s pressures. 
Once You Don’t Have to Be A Princess… didn’t get beyond a rough draft it came to me that the real gem in that book was the voice of the girl.  If I could merge her voice with was a lot my voice as a kid, with my client’s girls inside of them and other women’s girl’s inside of them, then I could make a composite ‘girl’ who speaks for all of us. 
And that is what happened.  I started to write and as I think all fictional authors say, the character starts to direct what will be said and what will happen.  And she did.  She has a bit of me mixed in, but quickly became her own person.  And boy did she tell us like it is! 
I think the ‘girl’ in  THE TRUTH is a great character.  She is funny and tragic, filled with wisdom and yet yearning for the wisdom and acknowledgement that she needs from grown-ups.  She sees a lot and knows what is right. She is smart and proud of it.  She has secrets and discovers a wonderful solution for a very painful problem she is dealing with.  She is great.  I hope you enjoy reading her diary as much as I enjoyed helping her write it.  As she said, "Grown-ups say they know so much about live but I know more…"  She does and we can learn from her!
What happened to the Princess book? It sits waiting for a kiss of somesort from the prince or a frog to get going again.  Meanwhile, I’m satisfied with THE TRUTH, I’m Ten, I’m Smart and I Know Everything!

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